Anyone falling in love?

What is going on these days?I met my long time football friend yesterday and we had this issue that is really bugging me.We were talking about the difference of feelings (of others') against people who fall in love when they are young compared to the people who fall in love when they are not that young anymore. I surprised myself at the disagreement with his views. I could smell the air of disgust in the his voice when he voiced out his dismay in having to learn about the ability of the not so young people to fall in love.
I should think it is a very private right to fall in love. Love knows no age limit. Love knows no qualifications. Love is such a fantastic feeling God chooses its receipient. Love is such a rich feeling anyone could have without having to worry whether one can afford it or not. Love and kindness is the most difficult 'thing' to give away, for it is always returned if one gives it unconditionally. For those souls who cannot bring oneself to express love, just a polite reminder: take effort if you must, learn to express your love before it is too late. For love is not to be kept to oneself but to let it loose for others lucky enough to catch them! Very importantly, don't worry about what others may think of you when they know you are falling in love. Don't be scared to fall in love. People don't DECIDE to love. They just FALL in love.GOT IT!

21st century elements.....

Here's my 21 ingredients in life should be......

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don'thave much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the onlyway to live life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer,smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve greatrisk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others;and responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate stepsto correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.GOT IT!

Boss not around...?

What would you feel when boss is not in? Well, I find some difference in my colleagues when boss is not in. They chat long on phone, wondering around for awhile, everyone seems happy and chatting. Some felt relieved as there will be no ‘intercom’ from boss asking this, that, this and that. It is the feeling of supervision I guess? No one is there to check on you and keep an eye on you. Know what? Some colleague always asked, ‘When boss got meeting? What time?Where is he/she?And even being nice to his/her personal assistant. Did you ever cross this mis- feeling?Did you did the same as well? What do you feel when boss is not around? Bosses what do you think?Please show some comments........GOT IT!

Cho Seung Hui...

Death is always tragic. But when a person chooses to end their own life, the tragedy is even greater. The saddest part of suicide is that it could have been prevented, if only someone had heard the cry for help. Suicide is a subject that people often feel uncomfortable talking about, but it is something that shouldn’t be ignored.
When someone ends their life, the biggest question of those left behind is “Why?”. There is no one single reason, but the helplessness and hopelessness that leads to suicide can be caused by many factors such as depression, family problems, pressure to succeed and low self-esteem.
The majority of people who kill themselves don’t actually want to die, but they see suicide as the only way to end their emotional pain. Facts reveal that in most completed suicides, the person has discussed their suicidal thoughts or plans with someone. Obviously, not all suicides are preventable. But being able to recognize when someone needs help, could save a life.
It is important to know that if someone is depressed and showing suicidal tendencies, something as seemingly insignificant as an argument or break-up or more worst complete hated from the society,feeling neglected from mankind could be enough to tip them over the edge. Believe what they say. The idea that if someone voices their intentions to you then they’re just seeking attention is a complete myth. If you don’t take them seriously you could be missing their cry for help.He did reach-out for help but.........I personally grace my blog with the heart warming thoughts to the family of Cho Seung Hui and the 32 victims.May their souls rest in peace.

What happen to him?
What was going through he's mind?
What have we done to help him?
What was he's motive?
Was he to blame for what he did?
Was the 32 victims faith of being in wrong place in wrong time?
What can we do to prevent this from happening again?

WHO TO BLAME?
Cho Seung Hui or Society?
Give me your thoughts......GOT IT!