Friday, January 5, 2007

Ideal life partner

In this present world,each individual has his own freedom to choose a life partner as we are no longer attach to the ancient family rules.Life partners play a very important role in our lives as they bring a very high influence into our characters and decisions.They are involve in every scene of our story and as a result,joy or sorrow are dependent on them.Happy moments and hardships are to be gone through together as they took the oath to be each other's spouse.Therefore,a person's life partner's role matters very much in contibution to his success or downfall and this is why i'm still looking for the someone.
Most guys wished to have a rich,smart,beautiful,diligent and kind person as their ideal life partner.But,an all in one package partner seems to be beyond existance as we are all human beings with lustful thoughts and acts.In my opinion,an ideal life partner should practise the same religion and beliefs as oneself to avoid disagreement in decisions regarding religions.A couple who share the similar faith get to work things out in a spiritual manner and this helps to reduce quarrels and arguments.On the other hand,their children need not face the circumstances of being persuaded to accept the different beliefs of their parents.This might also prevent harm from outsiders,friends or even our most trusted ones as the family stay in unity.
Nonetheless,my ideal life partner would be a person who is worth my trust.Being with an untrustworthy partner for the rest of your life would be a nightmare as it will just cause inferiority and jealousy to arouse.But,a reliable life partner makes me feel secure no matter where or what she is doing.For some unfortunate couples,they were forced to live in a far distance due to certain factors after or before their marriage.And in this scenario,a reliable partner does not give his spouse a threat of disloyalty but an untrustworthy one will be doubt and distrust.People do sometimes share their properties,bank accounts and other valuable stuffs with their life partner and what would happen if their trust were to be used in vain by their negligent partners.We will never know when disasters appear and things are just unpredictable all the time.
Apart from that,I think it would be better if my life partner is smart and resourceful.A smart life partner ensures a good living as she is capable of making money and being a loyalthy mum to my kids.It is rather hectic to slot day and night whilst the women stays at home without sharing the burden of the family these days.Life partner with intelligent ideas may create surprises and wonderful things and being spontaneous in many ways would have never expected in all our lives.Out of love,these wise people brighten up their life partners as well with insurance and guidance.A resourceful partner keeps a person like me to learn and gain more knowledge by providing daily advices too.As we endure to be with our loved ones,we do not wish to depart from them.Wise thinkers may care and make more wise decisions in their habits,culture or exposure in anything.In this way,we less worry for a wise than a foolish partner.
Hence,an abundant life is much determined by ones life partner.It is one of the most important decision to make on choosing the right life partner.Life often presents us with big,crucial and sometimes,decisions that we never want to make.But,I presume good decision requires love and rationality.People tend to make decisions based on petty calculations of personal profit and loss.But,we should make decisions based on love and not by anger nor the future benefits we gain.

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