Monday, January 8, 2007

What is relationship?

1. Many of us begin their relationships for fun (try only; first time experience), to show off, to fight off peer pressure etc. In the end, who's being hurt when things get serious?
2. Don't start a serious relationship if you aren't ready yet; but of course, if you insist it's just for fun, don't hurt others due to your selfishness!
3. Don't brag that you can handle a relationship easily when you're beginning to court someone; be good in looking after urself before taking care of others.
4. Majority - Guys are prone to peer, work, family pressure. As they are sensitive and can't stand the burden, they tend to let them out on their partners. So please, train yourself and control. Find better ways to mollify yourself instead of abusing others.
5. Saying is easier than doing!Once in a while, guys will slip out of their actions/words and hurt their partners because we guys could not stand stress. So girls, please, be understanding and patient. Mollify your men well and then bring up the topic about better ways to understand each other. Encourage a discussion always. Most girls get angry because of their temperamental men; hence break-ups occur. Remember, if you love someone deeply, forget about small matters and always improve on them.
6. Always forgive each other and move on with life..Compromise with each other will lead to a long lasting relationship.
7. For those who can't get over their broken relationships, look on the bright side. Learn to love others - nature, family, animals etc. Love is not only for your partner yeah. When you love someone or anything, you'll be happier and things will be much easier for you.
8. Don't be too calculative. Don't complain so much about your partner. If you complain so much, then why start a relationship in the first place? You'll only hurt yourself and her/him. Instead of complaining, talk about whatever to her/him - find a solution BUT no abusing verbally/physically. Arguments are welcomed of course if both parties can take them.
9. Don't Don't complain about your partner or tell your problems about relationships to your friend! Though that's your best or good friend, Never trust them so easily. Don't take things for so granted yeah. Unless, you feel that that person can be trusted really, then it's up to you personally. Most people suggest that talking to your PARENTS is best solution. They know best, so they can give you bits of advice. Of course, if they're nosey and might interfere with your relationship, then be smart and change the story, not involving your name whatsoever. Or talk to your family members will be great. If it's really bad, then email me cylan_deco@yahoo.com.my
STAND BY ME!

1 comment:

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